Hi, J here for ManPowerBlog.com
This is episode 1 and today’s frequently asked question is:
How to Get Over a Girlfriend You Still Love
Ok, before we take this question on, let me remind you to stick around for the resources at the end of this quick video.
Ok, so let’s get to it.
so… how to get over a girlfriend you still love?
Ok, one of the key points here is that – if this is a relationship breakup – then there is a good chance that she doesn’t love you back. So the first thing is: you’re loving someone who doesn’t love you back. It takes two to tango. A relationship is made up of two people who love each other.
Now, I know there are millions of relationships – especially couples who have children – who don’t actually love each other or they just tolerate each other and so on. Yes, there is a myriad of circumstances why people may stick around together… but we’re talking about healthy relationships, ok?
So, in a healthy relationship, the two parts of that relationship love each other. So in this question we’re going to assume that the other party doesn’t love you back, or even if they do, this is an impossible situation and hence you broke up.
OK, so the thing to do now is to move on. And then come up with everything that you need to do in order to achieve this. Now, don’t worry at this point because I am going to give you some resources at the end of this video.
Getting over somebody is a systematic approach if you want it to be. You can let time do it’s business – they say time heals – but that usually means doing nothing, sitting around and wallowing in misery for quite some time.
And then there is a systematic approach, where you actually take steps that have worked for other people in order to speed up that process.
I have also included these in the description below this video where you’ll find links to each of these resources.
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