Here’s a great video I came across today: dating tips for shy guys. The video is particularly good because it’s from the point of view of a woman (so listen up guys… there’s always gold nuggets to pick up when a woman gives dating advice to men!
Useful commentary from the video:
Caitlin O’Connor is Maxim’s ‘Helpful Hottie Advice Girl’, and she’s going to be giving some advice today that you’ll love if you’re shy, to help you get into the online dating world.
First off, don’t forget that women are shy too. So even if a girl likes you, sometimes she will be too shy to say anything to you when in reality it could be the opposite. Even if you go and approache a girl, don’t assume that she’s not going to be shy and as nervous as you are. Women are human. They get shy too.
Women want you to talk to them. Yes, women want to talk to you. They want to meet you. If they’re single, they want to meet a quality man. And that can be you. Don’t be afraid to speak to somebody. Sometimes you’ve just got to got for it. And if a girl spurns you, she’s probably not the one for you. You might get rebuffed four or five times. It happens. It’s okay. Maybe you get rebuffed 10 times but the 11 th girlfriend may be the one, so don’t give up.
Don’t just go out there blindly. Figure out what kind of girlfriend you want to date. If you like a fit girlfriend, go to the gym. Go to a yoga class. Go to a dance class. If you want a studious girlfriend, if you want a writer, if you want someone that’s really intelligent, go to a library. Go to a college campus if you’re too old. Go to a coffee shop. Or if you like a girl who loves sports, go to sporting events. You don’t have to just go out there and start approaching random girls. If you’re in the right place, then you can go and talk to a girl about something that you already have in common. So go to the places that you enjoy going to and that’s going to help you find women who have things in common with you.
As found on Youtube