This is a great video – very interesting to watch. This video shows you that you don’t have to be perfect to score. In the book Online Dating Success, I describe an interesting phenomena whereby people change their criteria when they meet somebody they like, to ‘fit’ their criteria around the new person. That should have you sighing in relief.
Here are some bits from the video, highlighting that you really do have a margin of ‘error’:
“When we first started talking, I didn’t have any romantic interest in Matt. I actually was just really…”
“Pat’s profile was very creative. He listed himself almost like an apartment.”
“This guy looks and sounds normal and then all of a sudden you go to the end, he’s like a creep on this little Asian girl. I almost didn’t go on a date with you.”
“I don’t know. I thought I looked good in the photo. I really didn’t see the nipple until after posting it.”
“He looked really cute but I think you were doing that fake lean. I was like, oh this is kind of cute.”
“Perfect first message by the way. A bit weird but way better than a lot of the fair that you get. – So this is like the day of the date. I said, I just got here but I’m listening to serial in the car.”
“He’s like interviewing me. Hey Matt. I love watching movies, going for early morning bike rides, going to the beach, playing with my dog, Russell Crowe of course. The way I phrased things sounds really funny. It’s like I’m trying really hard to be impressive.”
Much more in the video. Enjoy!
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